Not really about FOMO,* this Wired piece, “Goodreads and the Crushing Weight of Literary FOMO”, is more about guilt induced by membership of Goodreads. (Link via Lit Hub Daily.)
I must have never moved in the right circles, as I don’t think I’ve ever read a book because I felt embarrassed that all my friends were talking about it and I hadn’t even opened it. I dare say I’ve managed to pontificate about many a book without any greater familiarity with it than reading the New York Times book review, but I always (I like to believe) mention that I’ve not read the damn thing. Why let facts interfere with your opinions? It’s nice to think that there may be people out there who can be shamed into buying our books, but I can’t believe there are too many of them. Goodreads is, I guess, based upon the assumption that competitive reading does exist, and lots of people do seem to use the site, so maybe I’m the odd one. They now display a “Readers like you liked these, so you’ll love this” feature — perhaps unsurprisingly as their owners Amazon have done so well with it. To be fair, the main intention of Goodreads is to provide suggestions about what books you might like to read next. You can tell it what books you’ve enjoyed, and other users’ data will cause recommendations to be suggested to you. If you’re a hermit with digital access, this can be very helpful.
FOMO, as an acronym, looks like a modern phenomenon, but of course it has always been around. It has affected every generation of teenagers and those who fail to grow out of the teenage state. We used to call it peer-group pressure. Almost all kids go through a period of desperately trying to be identical with everyone else. In the olden days your peer group was small — maybe 15 or 20 people. Now that kids are constantly looking at their iPhones your “friend” group may run into the thousands. Feeling like you have to fall in with the attitudes of thousands must make for a constant state of FOMO. Obviously nobody’d have time to type that out.
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* “Fear Of Missing Out” for those who live quieter lives.